It’s time for Darrah Ford to go!
Op/Ed by Mariah Milano
Who the fuck is Darrah Ford? I see she prowls Twitter and Lukeisback looking for a place to sling her nonsense as she hides with a made up name behind the security of her online persona trying to sound as if she knows anything about this business when in fact she knows very little. She said in a reply to something I had written recently "If I were in this business I would never hire you!" Well guess what, you just made a very valid argument to everything…YOU AREN’T IN THIS BUSINESS!!!! She can say I’m a nobody and that I have to claim being famous because I’m really not, blah blah blah but I do very well and certainly don’t claim to be the top porn star or even one of the top porn stars.
In 2010 I have shot only 8 movies for other companies. I don’t live in LA so I’m not shooting every day like a lot of the porn stars so of course I’m not going to be one of the most popular girls. I haven’t lived in LA since 2004 and when I returned to shooting movies in 2007 I did so on a very low scale. However, my sites get over a million unique visitors every month and my income has not diminished with the bad economy. I have traveled all over the world and been paid handsomely to do so. Last year I flew over 80,000 miles and this year so far I’m over 67000 miles with another 5 months to go. I don’t fly coach either Darrah, just in case you have some discount fare shit to say lol. How many porn stars own their own house? How many own 2? How many have an IRA account? How many own 2 boats? How many have an investment portfolio and health insurance? I have these things because I have been very fortunate and learned my lesson at an early age about pissing money away at the mall. This is not a knock at the girls who don’t, it’s just a statement to backup what I say.
I find it hilarious that someone on the outside of our business has the gull to write about it as if she is on the inside. Someone who has posted publicly the real names of porn stars and directors yet claims that she is appalled at the fact that movies are shot in residential areas. With the economy the way it is and the tube sites giving everything away their isn’t money for studios in a lot of producers budget. I would say 90% of porn movies are shot in residential areas. Many shoot locations are bonded and legal and most are in guess where….residential areas! I find it hilarious that Darrah was so surprised when she saw Christian say he was shooting in a house….helloooooooooo! someone with such insight into this business should know that shouldn’t they?
I think I am going to put some of my money to work for me and hire a private detective to find the real identity and address of Darrah Ford and post it everywhere that I can so she can no longer be this anonymous Femi-Nazi who does nothing more than post her ill-informed nonsense as if she has privileged information. How would YOU like that Darrah? All these years of hiding and being so bold knowing no one knows who you really are will soon be gone Darrah. You mention my son and now you will see what it feels like to be exposed. You said you can’t imagine what my son has been exposed to? He is an A student in a private school and has no idea what his mother does for a living. I will tell him when the time is right and at 13 he doesn’t need to know. Many of the people in this business have children that are growing up in a loving household with good parents who just happen to be in the porn business. Is it so different than someone who owns a liquor store or a plastic surgeon who sells false self-security to young girls or aging housewives or over the hill hags like you the false promise of youth? I don’t personally think so, but that’s just my opinion.
I tried to make amends with you over a year ago Darrah and I also publicly apologized for claiming 90% of girls at shows are prostituting. I took it back and I was wrong to say it even though it isn’t that far from being true. You defend prostitutes who fuck married men yet you talk shit about people shooting in neighborhoods where kids play? They aren’t shooting out in the street!!!!!!! But someone fucking a prostitute in a hotel room behind their wife’s back is risking far more damage to their kids and their wives in my opinion. I am a child of divorce and saw what it did to my brother and I. I see what it has done to many other kids as well. I would bet your husband is fucking behind YOUR back and I really hope he is paying for it! lmao
I say it’s time for Darrah to show herself and put her money where her big mouth is.
You look like you’d be a fun fuck for a porn whore Mariah but, shit you got some issues girl.
I guess those issues are why you got mixed up in porn to begin with. Always gotta remember context…
Mariah,
i am sure you are a good mother and provide for you child,,,,,,but at 13 he ALREADY KNOWS. If he knows how to log onto a computer, he knows. If he has any friends who know how to log onto a computer, he knows.
And those worldly possesions you brag about,,,in my life I have owned all of that and much more,much much more,,,many people have had as much and much more,,,,and we never had to stick anything up our asses to getit.
Have that talk with your son, the sooner the better. At 13, odds are that he and his friends have already seen porn, hardcore porn,,,,and beleve me, when his friends find out what his mommy does he is going to have some serious things to deal with,,,,have that talk with him,,,,he needs it, and he needs it NOW. At 13, he DOES NEED TO KNOW,,,unfortunately he probably has already been exposed to it, and llike they say,,,you cant unring the bell.
Keeping this kind of secret from your children may not be the wisest thing. Can you imagine the shock that this kid is going to have the day mommy tells him that she’s been a porn star all this time,,,can you say therapy.
As loopy a person as Mariah sounds like, it’s her business and her business alone what to tell her kid and when.
I got a good idea,,,,how about I put up my own money, find out where you live, and have that talk with your son myself. Or better yet, have that talk with his schoolmates, and let them tell him……
Of course I would never do this, but like Lenny said, YOU GOT ISSUES!!!
And another thing about those worldly possesions,,, I never felt the need to hide from my children what I did to get tthem. You need to examine your own reasons for keeping this secret for your children, guilt, embarassment,shame,,,,,and be prepared for the worst, a teenage boy suddenly finding out his mother is a professional prostitute and has been so for years, could very easily cuase some problems.
You are absolutely correct Lenny, its her business.
Mariah knows that printing her personal business here is ging to get resposnes,,,,and keeping this kind of secret from a teenage boy is NOT good for any kid. ANd the longer she puts it off the worse it is going to be,,,,,its already bad,,,and it aint going to get better.
The most amusing part of it all is that the post is filed under ‘op-ed’. Op-eds are supposed to be about pertinent issues that people care about, nobody cares about, nor knows who Darrah Ford is and make that X10000000 with regard to her messageboard beef with a porn star from the last millennium.
The only way this brain dead topic can be saved is if it sets up a hilarious op-ed from the Colonel ripping both these ass clowns a new one.
Otherwise, poorly produced Cindi, poorly produced indeed.
Well Joe an argument can be made for both scenarios based on if the child is ready. However, only one person here knows that child and that’s Mariah who we have to *gasp* trust her judgment on what’s best.
Gotta be honest tho, I can’t escape the image of an angry, tear ridden kid trying to understand why? And all Mariah’s doing is showing him how many airline miles, boats and gucci bags she has. “You see son, the 12 incher got me er I mean us this!”
good fucking luck Mariah
[Britneyspearsyoutubefan] LEAVE MARIAH ALONE! [/Britneyspearsyoutubefan]
Seriously guys, it’s weird to jerk off to a pw and then lecture her how she should raise her son.
That being said, Mariah, why do you constantly feel the need to argue with people who claim that you are not a successful porn performer? It’s well known among perverts and industry insiders alike that you’re still one of the hottest and most successful talents. You really come through as insecure about your career when you’re constantly listing your accomplishments to prove something to the random people who talk shit on the internet all day long because they don’t have anything better to do.
Oh and thank you for taking your time and writing this article. It’s time someone gave Dara a reality check.
What part of ‘it’s her business and her business alone what to tell her kid and when’ did you miss?
reading comprehension = fail
which might explain why you enjoy Mariah Milano’s writing style
dummy
I am not bragging about my posessions guys…I was told by Darrah that I am a nobody and not famous and jealous of the “real pornstars”.
As far as my son goes he doesn’t get access to the internet and he does not know. It would hurt and confuse him and I think that it’s stupid of you to say he knows and that I should tell him. He’s a great kid, he is focused on sports and gets straight A’s and has good friends. When I was his age I was running around with older people and doing all kinds of bad shit so I am so fortunate that he is such a great kid. Why would I throw something at him that might upset that now?
As far as Darrah goes SHE came at me calling me jealous and a nobody.
A lot can be said about me and many of you don’t like me or the things I write and that’s fine, but one thing you can’t call me is fake or unoriginal. I don’t copy anyone and I don’t play a role of someone that I am not.
Newklear…thank you 🙂 But it’s not insecurity that made me write this, it’s the fact that someone absolutely NOT in the business is on my twitter and on forums saying things about me that are NOT factual. I don’t have any worry that I am a nobody because I know better. I don’t want to be the top pornstar I just want to be me, which I am beyond argument 🙂
And the real reason I wrote this at all is that this cunt had the audacity to mention my child when there was absolutely no reason to do so. Why bring up children? Why get personal especially when you hide your identity and claim there are people who want to kill you? Who is she to bring up stranger’s children? That’s a cheap shot and uncalled for.
As far as finding out who I am and where I live I don’t go to any great lengths to hide who I am or where I am. Many know my real name and know I live in the beach area of Tampa. I don’t advertise my real name or address simply because of safety but I welcome anyone to come address my son or myself…just know you will be met by a protective mother with a concealed weapons permit and about 50 hours of range practice. Your risk to take.
Why bother to even respond to this Darrah person. Hell, let her or anybody else say what they want to say. She was flat out wrong for mentioning your son, but as long as she only made a vague comment and not any other personal information, it shouldn’t bother you. It wouldn’t bother me. You got to learn to let things roll off your back because by getting all worked up about it you have played into this person’s hands big time. And i couldn’t agree more with the gent who has a hard time understanding why you feel the need to mention your accomplishments, houses, boats etc….
You said it was not to knock the girls who have accomplished less, but instead it’s your way of backing up what you say. My question is: Why do you feel the need to back up anything to anyone inside or outside this business? Just so you know: All the people i have come across in my life who felt the need to do that tended to have some serious insecurities and ego issues going on, and generally weren’t good people.
lmao
It’s gonna be so funny when the kid finds out what mommy is. His friends are gonna tell him. It is gonna be so embarrassing. Mariah better be glad she’s a no name porn whore or he would already know.
It isn’t that she made one comment or a general comment, she’s made these comments for the last 2 years. She has been a thorn in the side of this business since i first heard her name. She needs to be put on blast because for some reason she feels the has some authority to spew her shit even though she has no inside knowledge of anything. She is a gossip monger and nothing more. Fuck her.
As for this last dickheads post…it would be funny? What would be funny about a kid being hurt? As I said before, call me no name all you like, I don’t care. I know what I am and you know nothing about me other than what I want you to know. I’m cool with being your idea of a no name porn whore. I just consider the source 🙂
Well…if you start hiring a private detective to find the real identity and address for every person that hide behind a fake name and says shit left and right about peoples…even only those here at LIB…it will cost you an arm.
leslie – It amazes me how people read half of something or are just so dense that they don’t get it. Do you think it’s because she hides behind a made up identity that I say these things? Honestly, is that what you got out of everything I said? it has nothing to do with her using a fake name. jesus
Mariah says it would hurt and confuse her son if he knew the truth about her.
Why are you continuing to do something that YOU say will hurt your child?
And the concern about HER bringing up your children,,,,isnt that EXACTLY what you did here?
This kid is going to have some major trauma when he finds out,,,and it will be worse if he finds out on his own.
How long do you think you can keep this ‘hurtful’ sevret from you son,,,one more year, two more years, until hes’s40?
Your son doesnt get access to the internet,,but I bet all of his friends do.
Why do you not let your son have access to the internet,,,,,I think you know why!!!
Yes there are many parents in porn,,,,,but I have never heard of a single one who has kept it secret from their teenage children. This is absurd. Put some money aside for therapy. When this kid learns that mom has been lying to him his entire life it will be devastating.
As far as “spewing shit” YOU work in an industry that spews shit all over the world. Get over yourself.
Youre not an artist, or a performer, or anything other than a professional prostitue,,,a good one, but bottome line, nothing more and nothing less.
You yourself fell the need to keep this a secret from your own son, perhaps you feel that the shit you spew is not fit for him.
Hey Joe, her continuing to do porn matters not, the cat’s been out of the bag and the pussy all out and about so what does it matter now?
Besides, Mariah is able to take good care of and spoil her kid rotten with many things because of her wealth and fame, such as an autographed baseball that had already been promised to me.
One day when he finds out, she’ll say, “You would have never had ALL these things if I had remained an ordinary civilian”.
There are tens of thousands of women that have done nude work or porn over the years, most of the ones doing only partial nudity getting far higher search ratings online. As such, unless Mariah gives her kid & friends her “performer alias”, the chances they stumble across her work online are fairly small. She isn’t a highly promoted contract star, isn’t in lots of mainstream media productions, and generally keeps a low profile outside of the industry. Further, as attractive as she is, when she is not in “porn mode”, she probably looks different too, women often able to look very different.
Regarding how her child will take the news of her employment when she decides he is old enough to know, much will depend on his upbringing. Do any of you have reason to believe he will be an uptight prick like some of MM’s detractors? She is living the life she chooses, affording her family a comfortable living otherwise out of reach for her, and doing so on her terms. That is a lot more than most people can say these days, many of whom “whore” their ideals to keep bread on the table and the rent paid, doing things they don’t want to do rather than enjoying life as she does.
As far as the topic of the editorial is concerned, DF is no one of consequence to those in the industry, hardly worth the expense of hiring a PI. A decent one would be able to track her down in no time at all via the internet, a quick call to the administrators of forums like XPT all it would take for her IP info (that has been posted in the past). But why bother with any of that since she doesn’t impact your livelihood or family? Just saying…
Besides, Joe, for better or for worse, the attitudes about porn are changing.
Laurence Fishburne’s 19 year old daughter Montana Fishburne has just made her first porno for Vivid.
“I view making this movie as an important first step in my career,” said Montana. “I’ve watched how successful Kim Kardashian became and I think a lot of it was due to the release of her sex tape by Vivid. I’m hoping the same magic will work for me. I’m impatient about getting well-known and having more opportunities and this seemed like a great way to get started on it.” I’m sure Larry must be thrilled.
So, these days, Joe, everyone’s doing porno, and if someone has issues with seeing images of their loved ones in explicitly intimate situations, then one should show those people photographs of the porno images from Pompeii or Khajuraho which are/were displayed for all people of all ages to see.
Furthermore, Joe, what glorious service do you think Mariah ought to do, instead, join the military?
Humans are too often not trustworthy, saying whatever is politically correct, to get along and get ahead. However, animals don’t lie. Check out this dog’s sad eyes, once a loving and playful animal, now scarred for life from Post Tramatic Stress Disorder:
http://news.yahoo.com/nphotos/Military-dog-recovers-PTSD-/ss/events/us/080310militarydog/im:/100803/480/urn_publicid_ap_org483a42e0391c4cc7a7286e29d1d94b91/
My comment is still waiting moderation. Though Jeremy’s above comment must have gone through moderation because of the link he posted.
(no Darrah, it posted right away)
btw, I still think you’re ok… compared to Bill Margold.
Thanks Jeremy.
I’m now just seeing Houstondon’s comment when I didn’t before. So hopefully mine will go through soon.
Huh, I came here and didn’t see that Cindi had posted my comment as a story twenty minutes ago. Clearing the browser now.
I don’t allow my son access to the internet for many reasons, mainly because I don’t want him being exposed to the facebook and myspace and twitter nonsense that is going on. He is a smart kid but he’s very curious as all 13 year olds are. Of course I plan to tell him at some point when I think he will be able to handle it. I don’t think I plan to tell him how I sucked Mandigo’s dick at 19 years old but I will tell him I was in the business and unlike a lot of girls, it is a business to me, not a lifestyle. I rarely attend porn related functions and the ones I do attend are international events. My son has everything he needs and attends a very good school. He is being raised to know right from wrong and that forgiveness is very valuable. I know he loves me and he knows I love him. It’s MY business and throwing accusations at me for what I have exposed my son to is just wrong. period.
The comment hasn’t gone through here yet. So here’s the link Cindi posted so no one thinks I didn’t reply back:
https://www.lukeisback.com/?p=13222
Really Mariah,
Youre concerned about your son being exposed to facebook and twitter,,,,are you sure its not ‘mainly’ the PORN he might see that youre concerned about.
And you talk about others “spewing shit.”,,,Well at least when it comes to spewing shit no one can accuse you of not knowing what youre talking about.
I follow Mariah on Twitter and I noticed that she is quick to care about what people say about her and mention anything personal but when it comes to her talking trash about others and especially mentioning where someone lives and what kind of car they have and of course she deleted those posts from her timeline also. Its funny when the tables are turned its not so funny huh? I would be really careful about posting peoples personal info on twitter and threatening them. It can be traced really easily even if its been deleted.
Our little Mariah has actually THREATENED people online? Please do tell more. Little miss sunshine is posting people’s personal information online?? She’s posting where they live but complains about what I say? You’re a fucking CUNT Mariah! You’re a fucking fake and a fraud and you’ve done worse than anything I have ever done. You have a child and here you are exposing people saying where they live when they could possibly have children of their own. Hypocritical CUNT!
How much money would it cost to see Darrah and Mariah do a g/g scene together? I find g/g boring but that’s a scene I’d pay good money to see!
Hey I’m down for it as long as I’m the one wearing the strapon and get to pound her ass with it while I have her face smashed down into ground 🙂
Here I come baby, comin the getcha!
What’s amazing to me about this whole thing is that Mariah demands the freedom afforded to her that allows her to do what she does for a living but she isn’t willing to allow those same freedoms to others.
I’m sorry but Mariah you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Either you are for censorship or you are not.
what the fuck are you talking about? When did I advocate censorship? I simply think judgment is being called into question here. I am totally against censorship. I just think when you NOTHING about someone that you shouldn’t accuse them of exposing their kids to pornography. Kids shouldn’t be brought into a discussion unless there is a reason to believe children are being abused or exposed to harmful things.
Mariah is a hypocrite and it seems she has a serious self esteem problem and its apparent
This entire thing reminds me of two things I realized long ago.
1- One of the great things about the internet is that virtually anyone and everyone now has a very large soap box and a very loud megaphone.
2 – One of the shitty things about the internet is that virtually anyone and everyone now has a very large soap box and a very loud megaphone.
Billybob’s real name is Jim he lives in the bushes lol
I am here to support Mariah. I think she is one sexy gal and she has always been sweet to me via myspace and twitter. I am also cool with Darrah Ford. Maybe because I have only read a few of her articles and she has never attacked me. I will not attack Darrah either but I will not defend her on this. I am not sure that if she does not like you why she even tweeted you to reveal her distaste. I never understand why anybody does that to be honest. Let’s just say for a moment I do not like you, Mariah, which is not true ,but if I did not, I wouldn’t go out of my way to to write an article negative about you, or tweet negatively to you. I would instead focus on the people I do like. She should do that more often. I am building my own media site, that when dealing with pornstars, wreslers, actors and such I will not be talking to the ones I don’t like but to the ones I do like. Call me crazy but I think it will do just fine. When I get it built I hope I can get an interview from you Mariah. I will make it easy I will give you a list of questions and you can pick the ones you like. I do think though that posting her address may be a bad idea for I just got an email from some crazy guy who wanted to help out, problem is he seemed like some serial killer that if you disappointed him he may come after you, also I think even if he didn’t he would probably hunt down Darrah which is a bit extreme as well. Well gotta go Mariah. You have my support Mariah.
Jimmy Drama
https://twitter.com/JimmyDrama
http://www.myspace.com/jimmydrama1974
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000552591061
In other words, Jimmy says “I vote for tits ‘n ass everytime. It don’t matter what she says” -ha.
Not quite the way you said It Jeremy, but I watch porn at times, I usually stay away from all these forums because of the negativity between performers, forum bloggers and such. As long as someone doesn’t attack or threaten me, I stay out of issues to the best I can. What I may do is if a performer or some porn mogul has a cause like the one you talked about in a separate article or some ideas I do not agree with I most likely will take that into consideration when dealing with said person, if it is bad enough I won’t deal with the person at all. I may not agree with everything Jane Doe may say out there but if she is nice to me and I like certain things about them I let stuff slide. That does not mean by using Jane Doe as a reference, that I am referring to Mariah Milano. I have not read Darrah’s piece but I have been cool with her before so I need to analyze her take on this as well. My thing is I have told Darrah and other people in the past that if you don’t like something or someone or what they are doing move on and talk about someone you do like. If that person your talking about Struck the first blow than I can understand. I have posted rants on certain girls and guys that have attacked me for no good reason, but in all instance I never came to them and said you know what you said this about something and I really despise you for it. At least I have never did that to the regular Joe, or a performer. I may have done that to a politician but politicians are to be held to a higher standard than you and I. From what I read this whole thing started because Mariah said something Darrah didn’t like and instead of Darrah asking her some non judgemental questions, she immediately told Mariah off. I read some of those tweets and I gotta say thats what it looks like to me. At least so far, I doubt Mariah being a pretty sizable star as far as looks and traffic went out of her way to pick a fight with Darrah. Anyways I gotta go like I said. I tweet, I do myspace and facebook. I read Cindy’s site as well as Tony Batman’s, Monstars, Rog’s reviews and Steve Nelson’s site when I can but I use my phone and the social networks I got to communicate. I hate wasting my time trying to convert people to my way of thinking. Jimmy out, lol!!!!!!
I was just joshing you Jimmy.