NL- I know it isn’t our usual subject matter, but it I found this quite interesting. LMK what you think about Perez…
From the heart:
by Perez Hilton of perezhilton.com
"Words can hurt. I know that very well, from both sides of the fence. The other night in Toronto, after feeling physically threatened by a verbally abusive Will.I.Am of the Black Eyed Peas, I chose the most hurtful word I know to hurl at him. I was in an out-of-the ordinary situaton and used a word that I would not utter under normal circumstances. (NL- I believe Perez called him a FAGGOT)
My intention – however misguided it may have been – was to stand up for myself and tell this belligerent man that I had enough of his badgering and was not going to continue to let him berate and intimidate me. I wanted to hurt him with the word I chose, not anyone else. Unfortunately, the one who got hurt was me and, subsequently, a lot of other people. I wish none of it had happened. I can’t take it back.
I did what I thought was best at the moment to stand up for myself in a non-violent yet still assertive way. Clearly, I am not homophobic. Also, I am not nor have I ever claimed to be a spokesperson for the gay community. I am just speaking for myself, a gay man. One who is labeled "flamboyant" in the media. An American that is not granted equal rights under the law. I will continue to speak out for equality and I will continue to say things that upset both gay people and straight people. Who I am as a person and what I do for a living are two separate things. I’ve come to terms with all my incongruities and am proud of who I am and what I do.
In closing, words can hurt. But words should not provoke someone to violence. Stripped away from the mask of Perez Hilton, I have been extremely bothered by the public reaction to my assault. Violence should never be condoned with such statements as "It’s Karma" or "I don’t believe in violence but….". In fact, several television and radio shows over the past couple of days echoed the sentiment "He had it coming". Would they have said the same thing if I was a woman? Would I have "deserved it" if I had been stabbed? Or shot? Or killed? I was attacked from behind without warning and repeatedly punched in the head in a cold, disgusting and unnecessarily violent manner by Polo Molina, the road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, who I did not even speak with that evening. I did not share any words with him and his assault on me was completely unprovoked.
I feel like everything happens for a reason and I leave this traumatic experience as a person with more compassion. Specifically, there was an instance last year when actor Jesse Metcalfe was attacked outside of a Hollywood nightclub by a fellow entertainer. I did not condone the violence, but I did make light of that situation. I regret that. Sincerely.
There are many ways to deal with disagreements, both good and bad, but violence is never the answer. Never. I now know that first-hand. It should not be condoned, promoted or accepted. No one "deserves" to be the victim of violence. No one "has it coming." NO ONE. And victims should not be ridiculed. I look forward to marching for equality in Washington, D.C. this October. And I look forward to standing up for my rights in a Toronto courtroom shortly, as I fully intend to seek every lawful remedy against the man that attacked me."
– Perez Hilton
June 23, 2009
Los Angeles, California
On Twitter- From @johncmayer
To @perezhilton
I also want to train you in an old martial art called "Never Call A Black Dude a Faggot Jitsu."
I don’t know who Jesse Metcalf is but that video is awesome
oh and fuck that, he should just pay for someone to stomp out that guy instead
this is silly. a gay guy calling another the f- word. i’ve heard gays refer to each other as this in a certain tone (whether in fun or in anger, etc) and it wasn’t an offense or problem… and if someone pisses someone off and does something fucked-up, i think it’s understandable. for example, if i’m in a public shower and some gay guy is gawking at me uncontrollably, scrubbing his crotch with soap excessively while he stare… then that f- word might just cross my mind… hell, it might even leap out of my mouth… but would i feel i’m a gay hater in general… no… just that person, specifically .. that does not mean i hate everyone who’s gay, that’s fucking ridiculous… perez and william need to get over it, kiss and make up
This is the “genius” who made Carrie Prejean a “star”, it was the Miss USA pageant and this moron had to ask a question like that. Lets put it this way, Perez is a fag, George Takei is gay. I will say one thing, black guys have to deal with being called a fag a lot better than they have. Steele, you must really feel safe saying what you did about the shower, the old days BDD would have you beaten to verbal pulp by now. As for Sophia, she’s out there, somewhere.
Roy would’ve beaten me to a pulp for saying what?
As for Sophia. She recently emailed me out of nowhere and offered me $100.00 “piece” offering. Considering her accusations (not to mention attacks) I find this interesting.
Perez Hilton is of course a scumbag and a piece of shit, but the dude who punched the fuck out of him was looking at it from the wrong angle. Well, because since Hilton himself is a faggot, then I believe when he calls someone else a faggot, probably in his cock sucking, butt munching logic he’s trying to complement him. I hope gay guys who are reading this elaborate and enlighten us further.
Steele here:
for example, if i’m in a public shower and some gay guy is gawking at me uncontrollably, scrubbing his crotch with soap excessively while he stare…
What I meant is that BDD would take that and run with it, like why would you be in a public shower and so on. Who’d Sophia steal the money from, or should I look for a new scene from her in a Jim Powers’ Bukkake fest.
oh yeah those old, repetitive and/or weak jokes you love so much
i’d be in the public shower trying to get tips
if boococky had been in the warring ’40s’ i’d just as soon bomb japan for inventing bukakkes and exporting them to american as the bombing of pearl harbor.. it’s truly a disgusting disgrace that sells well
btw, this article is really gay!
Jeremy Steele says:
‘Bukkake is truly a disgusting disgrace that sells well.’
True, I wish I could get inside obsessed fanboy’s heads and find out what’s exactly appealing, erotic or sexy about a bunch of low life scumbags taking turn and jerking off on a whore. Historically, bukkake was invented in feudal Japan to punish adultering wives. The husband, the master of the house, would summon his male servants to gather around his cheating wife and jerk off on her in order to humilate and punish her. They were not even supposed to touch her or have any sexual contact with her. It was a way of retribution.
There are different ways of punishing adulterers in different societies, for example in islamic countries they stone the adulterers to death or castrate them. To me watching a bukkake scene is as much appealing and sexy as watching someone getting stoned to death. In other words, it’s just fucking primitive, ridiculous and stupid.
i just thought of an idea… better TM it…
I thought of that too, Jeremy. But any whore who wants to do that should charge more than $800 which is bukkake’s average rate.
i think if a feudal woman were forced to eat a bukkake omelet from jim power’s sets she’d commit hari kari
i don’t know what idea you thought of colonel but mine is ___________
Let’s just say for my idea, I’ve got the Taliban on the speed dial.
mine’s different and more of a general concept…
is this the kind of back and forth yak yak they do on twitter?
I wouldn’t know, because I’m not twitting. That’s a question for Iranians, the founders of the first twitter revolution in the history. Eat your heart out, Thomas Jefferson.
Let’s hear your idea, Jeremy. Sounds interesting.
Alright I am openly gay (and please no christian jokes lol) and Perez Hilton has done a lot for the gay community…sorta.. and the reason it’s such a big deal that he said “faggot” was because he attacks any celeb who uses it…
I personally can’t stand Perez he is the worlds leading douche bags..
he makes a living off of people making mistakes or outting people and pretty much just a big FN drama queen!! He gives gays a bad name… anywho..
The only reason he freakin posted the “heartfelt crap” was because the powers to be over at GLAAD started hissing and scratching and writing crap about him and they demanded a “I am sorry letter”
As far as the faggot term, or the that’s so gay stuff goes 99 percent of gays couldn’t give a shit, we use it ourselves.. who cares.. A female dog doesn’t get mad when you call a someone stupid a bitch, a douche bag doesn’t get made when you call someone a douche ok ok the last part was a little overboard, but who cares….
here are the facts:
the black eyed peas fucking suck it. they are responsible for creating the god awful crime against humanity called “my humps”. fuck those homos.
perez hilton is a hypocritical d-bag queer who can dish it out but can’t take it. just like a typical bitch bottom faggot.
fuck ’em both.
“I don’t know who Jesse Metcalf is but that video is awesome”
He was the gardener in the first season of Desperate Housewives.
Who is a bigger cock sucker, Mario Lavandeira, who plays the opinionated, bitchy gay man sterotype and them cry foul when he is is said to “had it coming”
or Trannyfucker, who get a man´s load in his mouth on video and them when a girl turn off with that put him in her no list, starts bitching that his AIM test is not worse that anyone else and testing her at all hours?
Both Mario and Christian must learn to take responsabilites for their acts like a man.
I don’t get the appeal of bukkake, either. Whether or not someone gets off on the obvious degradation of the subject, it is, in it’s essential construct, watching men jack off. Am I missing something here? – it’s GAY!
first my humps, now boom boom pow… total disney rap
I’d like to tell you my idea Colonel, but don’t want to give it away. I’ve done that too many times…
Well Jeremy, then the best thing is to TM the idea first and then tell me about it. I’ll wait.
the bottom line if i may digress is that we’re a mess because we’ve super-near-sighted, twitterized, missing the big picture or pictures out there and buying lies
sorry, a stoned poetic moment… doctor’s orders
Thank you Brian Jay for enlightening us on the term ‘faggot’. Now if you’d like to, I can put you in touch with Christian XXX, I’ve got a feeling you two will be life long friends.
One more thing: if somebody is man enough to admit his sexuality as you just did, I have no particular problem with that. Your life, your decisions. But the problem with someone like Christian XXX is that he’s obviously gay and yet refuses to admit his sexuality because he’s such a fucking pussy.
Brian, maybe you can convince him to be more reasonable, to come to terms with himself and openly admits he’s gay. If he does that, I promise I’ll buy him a cock shaped lollipop, a set of adult diapers and one year subscription to ‘World of Warcraft’.
Coming from you Colonel I take that as compliments… however!! as far as Christian goes the only thing we have in common is the L.O.C (Love of Cock) I don’t think we’d have anything else in common, he’s to fem LOL.
With that being said, I don’t know Christian and have nothing against him, but I understand he’s not very well liked in the industry or by fans.
“One more thing: if somebody is man enough to admit his sexuality as you just did, I have no particular problem with that. Your life, your decisions. But the problem with someone like Christian XXX is that he’s obviously gay and yet refuses to admit his sexuality because he’s such a fucking pussy.”
Yeah, Brian, I have no problem with Gay or Bi men who are honest about that.
Is Chrissy assertion that he is “straight” when we all know his love of cock what is so funny.
“he makes a living off of people making mistakes or outting people and pretty much just a big FN drama queen!! He gives gays a bad name… anywho..”
Yesssss! Being a homosexual man do not means you are a faggot, sadly Perez Hilton is a faggot, that people are they one that by playin every bad stereotype in the book give gays a bad name.
And Mario, do not play the homofobia card, a man that does what you do should has been punched in the face long a go, gay or straight.
Brian my friend, that was a compliment. You’re the man that Christian never dares to be: you’re a honest homosexual. You have the balls as well as rights to be what you want and do what you want. I wish Christian could learn from you, but knowing he’s such a fucking pussy and so confused about his own sexuality, I highly doubt he will.
The Colonel has a very “obvious” man-crush on ChristianX. I don’t know him or met him, but nothing gets “the colonel” hotter than the mention of his name. Just saying…