Tuesday, January 20, 2009 from her blog
I’m a nice girl but this needs to be reposted!
Current mood: blank
So I wrote this a long time ago before I was in the industry, but it seems more than ever am I getting this. It gets on my last nerve, and if you notice a lot of times I don’t even respond! So please take this into account before you message me! It also has other things that annoy me about my ts community.
1. Why did you "decide" to become a girl? ANSWER: I didn’t decide what a stupid ass question, it’s how I feel. Do you think at the age of twelve I had the gumption or smarts to "decide" such a life changing decision. NO..it wasn’t a want, it wasn’t a desire…it was a NEED. A need to be ME. I was always ME. Simple ANSWER why do you feel as a man? YOU JUST DO you don’t think about it. YOU JUST KNOW. SAME WITH A TRANSEXUAL!! There is no HIDDEN ASPECT TO IT.
2. Dumb questions about transexuals or what fucktards call shemales or chicks with dicks. IF YOU ARE SO INTERESTED in TRANSEXUALS do some research on it and MAYBE your dumb ass wouldn’t offend the transexual you are speaking to.
3. PEOPLE THAT WATCH THE MEDIA TO COMPARE what a transexual is about. ANNOYS THE PISS OUT OF ME!!
4. People that can’t look past the fact of being a transexual. They will always treat you as one, rather than a woman. YES FINE you have the oppisite sex organ than what you live as. SO WHAT!! So what if you get it sucked so what if you don’t So what if you fuck with it so what if you don’t. It doesn’t make you any less or more of your NEEDED GENDER. WE LIKE TO BE TREATED AS WOMEN if you are MTF and we like to be treated as MEN if we are FTM.
5. GIRLS THAT ARE FARTHER IN THE TRANSITION that think they are all that. And a beginning girl gets hated on by them. The only reason these girls are hating on these beginners is cause they are still INSECURE no matter how much surgery they’ve gotten to appear their NEEDED GENDER I see this go on in chatrooms and other places all the time, and it ANNOYS THE PISS OUT OF ME.
6. TRANSEXUALS THAT CALL MEN FAGS ETC because they enjoy anal sex etc SEX DOESN’T MAKE THEM WHO THEY ARE it’s their personality GIRLS and whats in their hearts and BRAINS. ISN"T THIS WHAT YOU PREACH why you want to be TREATED THE WAY YOU SHOULD as a FEMALE!!??!! STOP BEING HYPOCRITES.
7. Older transexuals that hate on the younger transexuals cause they look the way they want to look. ANOTHER THING I SEE THAT HAPPENS. There are plastic surgeons if you aren’t happy then fix it. Don’t hate on someone else. You should be stable enough to afford plastic surgery if you are older, and if you aren’t go to school and get the things you need to do so. It’s never too late to go back to school.
8. Transexuals against Gays and Lesbians and vice versa! It annoys me! Transexuals against the LGBT, omg this annoys me A LOT..if you don’t feel they speak well enough for the COMMUNITY..STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT IT..AND GET YOUR ASS OUT THERE TO THE MEETINGS IN YOUR CITY OR TOWN AND PUT YOUR TWO CENTS IN. JOIN IT HELL I DID IT HELPS YOU GET YOUR VIEWS AND THOUGHTS OUT TO THE COMMUNITY. But sitting there complaining about it and saying oh they SUCK when you aren’t doing anything to THEATE AND EDUCATE isn’t going to change anything or make YOU ANY BETTER.
9. Are those men that just keep saying
You’re Hot
Thanks
No realy you’re hot
Okay thank you
and then they keep going and going until finally you are like STFU this isn’t convo ASSHAT
What they want you to respond with is omg he thinks Im hot now I’ll get on all fours and I’ll let you fuck me. SORRY FELLAS BUT I’M NOT THAT DESPERATE lol
10. I have always found it rather rude to instant message someone out of the blue without first asking. Even in Chatrooms, I ask in open chat, before private messaging. I have explained this many times over to people, and they never seem to get it. If you get my name on here or on myspace or wherever else my name is advertised on. Send me a quick message ON HERE FIRST or on myspace. I like to know who is messaging me. So I don’t have to go "Who is this?" cause it makes me come across as a BITCH when I’m not. So please if I haven’t invited you to PRIVATE MESSAGE ME or I.M. me then DON’T DO IT!
11. Men that I allow to message me, and then assume I’m going to have cyber sex with them. THIS IS A DEFINITE NO! If thats what you want go to iFriends or Niteflirt and pay one of the girls on there. I will also take donations lol. I utilize my Messengers mostly for business or to talk with old friends. Yes I appreciate the compliments and what not, however you can send that in a message on HERE or in a comment. I will also not jump on webcam for you!
12. Men that think because they talked to me a few times and I seem to like them, that the above message will alter.
13. MEN that think because you have a certain expecation in a man or standard of what you want that you are SHALLOW. I’m sorry, but I refuse to let go of my standards on what I am attracted to and expect for me. I don’t play the Because I’m a TRANSEXUAL I have to lower myself or I can’t do this BECAUSE I’m a transexual. I get this mostly from older men, and to those men. It’s just me personally I am not wanting to date someone older, I want a man my age. I know the rebuttle is, oh but I could give you security or I know myself better than a younger guy does etc etc etc. But sweety, if I dated an older guy it would be out of desperation to have someone in my life and for security/money. That to me isn’t LOVE. And I’d hope you wouldn’t want that for yourself. Not to mention the older gentleman can be just as BAD if not worse as a younger guy. Girls let it be known it’s not BAD to have standards for yourself. Don’t lower your standards, because of a few bad apples in your life. Be true to your heart and have respect for yourself. And by this I mean, I think a lot of girls will demean themselves or out of desperation stay in crappy relationships and be treated like shit, because they find a good looking guy and don’t think they CAN DO ANY BETTER. Sweety you can, it will just take patience and knowing you CAN find him. And getting over the whole TRANSEXUAL BIT. Sweety young guys as well as older guys do this to not only transexuals, but woman too. It’s not every guy, it’s just that particular guy. Make that man WORK for you, he’ll respect you in the END, and if he don’t move on someone else WILL!
14. People that assume WAY too much what a person is about, because of their job or lifestyle. It’s disgusting, take the time to know the person before you judge!
15. Talking to me online a few times and telling people we are friends or you know me well! Omg I get this one a lot. This is a big no no in my book.
Complaints from the industry aspect: NEW
1. DON’T send me hate mail if I don’t respond to your email on here. I definitely wont respond then. I do however try to read every message, but there is only so many hours in one day. As I have stated previously I talk more on my forum the free one. www.kellyshore.net/forum if ou want to chit chat do so there!
2. DON’T try out for my website just to get my reaction on your pics and for the hope for us to chat it up sexually. When you try out for the website I take it as if you are seriously wanting to be on. So when you come back and say I just wanted to see what you thought of my pics it annoys the piss out of me!
3. DON’T assume I know other girls life stories or ask me 100 questions about her because you see me in a pic with her. If you want to know about her, message her yourself they most likely have a myspace of their own or website.
4. DON’T be offended if I haven’t sent out autograph pics yet or signed a dvd you have. I have not yet taken new promo pics to do so or signed up for a fanbox mail account. As much as I love you all, I am not comfortable sharing my pesonal address.
5. DON’T be afraid to tell me what you want to see me in as far as clothes, what scenes you would like to see me do, what you would like me to say in a film and so on and so forth. I try to be as personal as I can and try to do most of the things that are requested with in reason.
6. DON’T talk to me as if I am some huge star. Saying stuff like "you aren’t worthy" and overreacting about me makes me feel weird and makes me not sure how to respond. Just talk to me as a real person as I am still very much so!
Thats all I have now more later….I am sure!
This bitch, I met her in Vegas at the AVN Expo. Yes she is pretty but what a fucking bitch. She takes a pic with me because I asked and then says okay nice meeting you and just walks the fuck off. Doesn’t even give me five minutes of her time. I know I am an attractive guy so I don’t see what the fuck her stuck up ass problem was I wasn’t some ugly fuck wanting to hump her leg. So Miss Shore what about your stuck up ass holier than thou attitude???????????????????????????????????????????????????
You gotta be kidding me this is a dude with tits.
see she hasn’t responded, just as I thought. BITCH! Dude she looks better in person thats not a good pic of her above.
I don’t care if HE responds this is still a dude in lipstick with a penis. If you are a dude who likes penis that’s fine whatever floats your boat but as for the straight population out there who may be confused this is a dude in heavy makeup with a pair of tits and a penis between HIS legs.
I would like to say I am sorry that I didn’t spend more than five minutes of my time with you, but after seeing this I am glad I was so ‘busy’ that I couldn’t spend more time with your patheticness.
I wont respond to the other mess in this……
However I was busy at the avns you weren’t the only guy there. I wasn’t looking to hook up either, I have a boyfriend…I have made that very public. So have a nice life mr “attractive” I hope you have better luck with the next transsexual you encounter.
You could always sign up for my contest though…I have a contest going on for fans right now to do a scene with me voted by me and some of my other transsexual friends. As long as your std test comes up clean ‘handsome’ and you win the contest you get to be in a scene with me and you can fuck me three ways till Sunday how does that sound?
Sweet Kisses (Good Luck ‘handsome’)
Kelly
please, “Kelly” for a member of a group that has a lot prejudice against them, you are pretty fuckin mean and insensitive
I’m sorry I thought insensitivity and meanness was coming from the other direction. 😉 I’ll make sure to remind myself of this next time…………
From reading what he wrote, it sounds like whether his opinion was warranted or not, he was rubbed the wrong way… Simply from a PR standpoint a simple “my bad I was in a hurry” or something along those lines could have kept you a fan. Even if he was a weirdo asshole, you didn’t have to give in to your impulse to make him feel as small as possible so far after the fact. From what I understand, that is the same hostility members of the LGBT community face. Your tirade was vindictive and immature. Did you really have to mock him? I hope you are aware of how different your life might be in attempting a life as a different sex at various points in the past.
I hope he signs up, wins the contest and fucks you until your colon falls out. All in a days work, right?
First off I belittled noone. I had multiple of fans walk up to me at the AVNs I spoke to them signed and not one had a problem or chip on his shoulder. I wasn’t there to fuck my fan or fuck anyone. I was there to meet and greet and move on. This guy obviously had a hopeful objective in his head already. He stated he was an attractive guy, and because I didn’t swoon over him thats why he is complaining. His ego was hurt, he was hoping I’d say come back to my hotel later or whatever notion in his head that he had.
So you are reading way too much into things. I was nice to everyone that I met at the AVNs or anywhere I go. I’m a born and raised southern belle and manners and charisma is my best attribute. He is mad because I didn’t want to hook up POINT BLANK!
Sweet Kisses
Kelly
Oh and before someone talks about time. I know I spent well over 5 minutes with each person that walked up to me. When I saw the conversations going south, I said it was nice meeting you and moved on. By south I mean SEX.
fuck outta here with that bullshit and read what chad wrote… he’s trying to say you were a bitch to him and from his perspective he’s not a pathetic ugly ass man that deserved that… from what you wrote in response, I don’t doubt what he says is true… he said he wanted 5 minutes of your time, in the real world 5 minutes is 5 minutes… not everything is code for sex
AL is that your name? Well AL I have never been mean or rude to anyone for coming up and saying Hi to me. I definitely was not rude to this man. I did come off rude on here, because he called me a “bitch”
He could of also used a different tactic to get my attention or manners. When a guy flat out tells you god he’d love to take you back to his hotel and fuck you I guess it isn’t code…so I agree. I am sure this is who I was. Yes he was attractive, but arrogant and cocky. I treated him the same way he treated me.
Sweet Kisses
Kelly
You are saying from that one paragraph he wrote you recall your encounter with him and can place a face to this guy?
No I am saying that is the only guy I can remember I may have been short with and not rude to just impartial and a bit stern lol
The guy’s explanation of how Kelly treated him doesn’t even sound like she was “mean” to him. It sounds like he didn’t get enough of her attention and she didn’t kiss his ass like he was looking for. And AL, Dude, chill out, your jumping on Kelly about it, means it’s happened to you also. And you are feeling for the guy. You can’t please everybody, jesus christ. I’ve seen plenty of bitches in my day, and Kelly aint coming across as such.
bullshit YoHo… did you read 6? What are you saying, a porn star has told me to fuck off? Hasn’t happened yet, though my experiences are limited.
Thanks man for seeing it from my side. She’s showing how much of a fucking bitch she is in the responses she is making. I am not so fucking brain dead to point out a bitch! Fuck Kelly I’m hot you just wanted to prove a point that I can’t have you, whose the one with the chip on their shoulder?????
^^^^^^^^^^^^Chad you caught me, I’m a bitch…… I don’t have a chip on my shoulder? I have a boyfriend…………………………..
Firstly I’d like to say to Kelly: you’re hot and I wish you the best of luck with your career. I don’t really know what went on with you and Chad as I was not there but making your fans feel appreciated should be at the top of the list for any celebrity because without them there are no celebrities.
To Chad I would like to say: I’ve definitely been where you are man, but I realized that it essentially boils down to selfishness. I will say that men are disproportionately the victims of rejection/uppity attitudes but you also have to put yourself in a woman’s shoes: you’ve got tons of guys coming up to you every day and it’s really not as simple as saying “Oooh, I like that one”. Personalizing the situation only makes it hurt. I don’t think you’re wrong for wanting her attention at all though. As Mignon McLaughlin once said “It upsets a woman to be, or not to be stared at hungrily”.
Dear I was nice to him. I signed his dvd, took a pic with him while his hand was on my breast and ass. I kissed him on the cheek when I said bye. He wasn’t the only fan there, and he was propositioning me over and over again.
If what you say is true Kelly then I don’t really see why he’d be mad. And you’ve taken time out to meticulously respond to our comments so you’re not too stuck up in my book.
Kelly,
You can’t make em all happy no matter what ya do.
so true babe. I am just disappointed it had to happen to me, cause I value myself as a nice person. But being nice doesn’t mean you get walked over.