Luca Eisenstein posts:
“It’s interesting how many people frequent this site and xxxporntalk.com who appear to have absolutely nothing but contempt for women in general, and for porn stars in particular.”
Absolutely incorrect! XXXPT is a place where intelligent,smart women with a good sense of humour get lauded and praised on a regular basis.
Unfortunately, most women and men in porn are neither smart nor funny, at least when you look at the “talent”. They make a decent living with their bodies because, let’s face it, they just couldn’t do it with their brains. They should focus on delivering good scenes and being nice to look at in general.
But instead they’re trying to come off as “thinkers” and hence commit outrageous acts of douchebaggery, exacerbated by their mostly non -existing grasp on reality. And earn the adequate and appropriate reactions…
The simple fact that a woman’s looks can give my penis an erection does not make her worthy of my intellectual worship. Giving my mind a “hard-on” does!
Of course, this is precisely the attitude that has driven off almost every female member at XPT, and turned it into an inanely self-absorbed circlejerk.
The simple truth is, the typical XPTer is a 30-40something “fanboy” with relatively little sexual experience. To him, the pornwhore represents every girl he ever wanted, but could never have. So his desire is tinged with anger and bitterness over a lifetime of perceived rejection. XPTers hate pornwhores that dare to see themselves as “too good” for them. Therefore, they typically target any girl who doesn’t present herself with sufficient humility and self-deprecation. Pride is the only unpardonable sin a pornwhore can commit on XPT.
Hey, nice little effort in demographic analysis there! Would you please be so kind to cite your source of underlying data that your conclusions are based on? Or did you collect the data yourself by conducting a survey on all XXXPT posters’ personal details? On an anonymous message board, after all…
But it’s good to learn that the wise, all-knowing Mr. Hyde is aware of all of our circumstances in life, all of our hopes, needs and desires, what we hate and love. You even know WHY we hate and love what we hate and love! You’re not only a clairvoyant, you’re a psychiatrist / psychoanalyst, too! May I humbly suggest that you change your “handle” from “Hyde” to “Freud”? Or “Hanussen”?
Or could it be that you are just dabbling in psychological projections and arbitrary assumptions?
A few more things:
In case you didn’t notice, the first paragraph of my original post was semi-“tongue in cheek” or half-ironic, nevertheless it’s true! Confusing, isn’t it? “Lauded and praised”… Yes, people in the 21st century talk like that when they’re dead serious about something…
As to my “attitude”:
I despise stupidity, in men and women, “porners” and “civilians”, straight and homosexual people, children and adults, humans and animals. I guess that makes me a horrible person… I’ll have to live with that burden!
I am susceptible to what I consider good looks in / on a woman. They spark my sexual interest. That’s called “male heterosexual behaviour”. But mere sexual interest only goes so far… Not above the waistline in my case!
I admire and worship intelligent, smart and witty women who are able to stand their ground in a conversation and are able to stimulate my mind. And make me laugh! Hence I fall in love sometimes… If everything goes well, I’m going to marry a fine example of this type of woman before this year ends… And oh yes! She is giving me a mental hard-on!
Not bad for a misogynous kaputtnik who never gets any nookie, ey?
In short: Her body made me come, her mind is making me stay… A mekhaye!
Shalom aleichem, Y’all!
Martin Amis in Rough Trade already noted how humourless is most porn talent (Gia Jordan dark humour is an exception) and quoted Nietzche “jokes are a epitah on the death of feelings”. As an outsider I have found XPT to be one of the funniest webs in the internet, if you like gallows humour. And I¬¥m not alone in that, Encyclopedia Dramatica who introduced me to XTP seems to agree.