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Who Is Kara Nox?

I get a call Thursday afternoon (3/10/05) from Rob Spallone at Legend.

"Who is Kara Nox?" he asks.

"I don't know," I said.

"Well, you wrote about me and her on your site."

"That must've been a long time ago."

"Kara Nox has Rob wrapped around her little finger," he reads. "They spent last weekend together at Rob's vacation home in Palm Springs."

"That was just a joke," I said.

"Rob who? Me Rob?"

"I think so," I said.

"You wrote it."

"That's a long time ago."

"Yeah, but somebody is looking s--- up on me... 'Rob played golf and laid by the pool and went shopping.'

"This is what you do to me?"

"It's so long ago. [August 27, 2004]"

"Why didn't you tell me about making up this story?"

"I don't remember."

"You're a real prick. Goodbye."

Rob hangs up on me.

From August 27, 2004

Rob Spallone obliterates his wife's name (Helena) with this new tattoo

For the last few years, I've noticed that Rob Spallone has suffered severely from psoriasis (caused by stress). Now that he's getting divorced, his skin problems are gone. He looks better. He's off all medication. Rob's arm hurts from his new tattoo. It's a tad inflamed.

Rob and his new girlfriend Kara Nox

Porn star Kara Nox has brought a sweetness and joy to Rob's life that's developed a whole new side in him. They've been dating for a couple of months now. They'd get married except she's already married to John, an occasional porn performer.

In three years in porn, Kara has done 12 movies. She's pacing herself. But Rob is bringing out her inner porn star. He wants her to become all the ho she can be.

Rob and Kara met on the set of Toilet Bowl Bitches #5. It was love at first sight.

It was her smile that smote him, and her tits. When she strapped it on, he was in seventh heaven. He'd never taken it before. Under her experienced hand, he learned to submit.

Kara Nox has Rob wrapped around her little finger. They spent last weekend in Rob's vacation home in Palm Springs.

Kara and Rob played golf, laid by the pool, and went shopping for $3400 worth of new clothes for her.

It turns out that Kara is Rob's niece. Her father is John Gotti. Her uncle is Reuben Sturman.

You'd be smiling too if you feel asleep every night cradling Rob Spallone in your arms.

The face that launched a thousand ships (and Rob Spallone's Orange County yacht).

Kara gazes into Rob's eyes and tells him all the wonderful things she sees.

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"Are you a space alien?" asks Rob. "Because your ass is out of the world."

Rob Spallone's brother Bishop Kara Nox makes goo goo eyes at Rob Spallone.

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Kara Nox: 'Absolutely Pissed -- A Must Read for Porn Insiders'

Kara writes 7/30/05 on her blog:

Rent is due on Monday. Unfortunately for me, it looks like I'll be late. Why? Well, here's the deal:

My husband and I worked overtime getting our house ready for this shoot, which meant spending quite a bit of money that should be going towards rent. For my part, shoots have been few and too far between. In four years, I've done maybe a dozen titles. Some girls do that in two weeks. I work hard, I play by the rules, I spend two hours a day in the gym, I work on my tan, and I dedicate myself to my job. My husband, for his part, has logged uncountable hours on my publicity, my website, and making sure I'm sane. But for what?

Don't get me wrong. I enjoy the porn industry. I think if college educated women knew how liberating it was, more of you would do it in a heartbeat. When I work it's a great feeling. It's a great feeling to know that, sometimes, the hard work pays off. But in moments like this I have to wonder how much it's worth continuing. Worse. I have to question the motives of someone like Will Hammer, the producer in question. I think he should be blacklisted, blackballed, and exposed for the fraud he is. The problem really is that he's not alone. This has happened not only to me, but my fellow sisters in this industry as well. The problem isn't while we're on set, it's whether we actually get there at a

Kara Nox's friend Andy Clarke writes:

Kara is a small town girl from a snowy town east of the Mississippi, and north of the Mason Dixon Line. She grew up in a small, tight knit community where porn was almost non existent, and in a Catholic home where things of a prurient nature were kept hidden.

"I didn't have much fun growing up. I didn't even know what oral sex was. I mean, I was clueless about sex until I got to college." In high school, Kara did what most sexually adventurous girls do: she masturbated a lot. And she let loose her frustrations in athletics. She excelled in her art classes, using her imagination to release her sexual energy. Kara's exterior was that of a tom-boy, but she made sure that her panties were always very feminine just in case.

"I didn't really want to have sex with any of the guys in my school. But that doesn't mean I might not have met someone at a hockey tournament to screw. I had to be prepared."

4/21/06

Kara Nox writes:

A funny thing happened to me today. An internet company emailed me asking me to model for them. The company photographs naked girls with bongs, and other pot paraphenalia. I declined the offer, telling them I don't smoke pot. This isn't the first time someone's asked me to do something like this. While I haven't heard back from this particular companies, the other ones usually say, "yeah, right". For the record, I don't do drugs.

I've smoked pot maybe a handful of times in my life. And the only reason I did so was to alleviate serious pain caused by endometriosis and a pulled groin (undiagnosed). But that's it. I've never popped pills, dropped acid, rolled, or gotten myself ----ed up on meth. Being a stripper I've seen the effects these drugs have on the women with whom I've worked. It's one of the ugliest things I've ever seen.

What does it say about a society that refuses to accept that someone isn't as ----ed up as they are? The usual comments I get involve me being a goody-goody. Whatever. I'm a slut. I smoke cigars. I work in porn. I have incredibly dark sexual fantasies. Just because a person refuses to poison themselves, and refuses to ---- with their neurochemistry doesn't make them self-righteous. This brain is all I have. I can't get a brain transplant if it fails like I can with a kidney. I can't get an electronic device installed to improve its function like I can with my heart. Nope. I'm stuck with it. And I'd rather have it be healthy.

I don't judge those who toke up. It's not what I'm about. If people want to do it, it's not really my place to place value judgments on their behavior. A lot of people don't do porn but don't judge those of us who do. I'm in that camp about drug users. My only real issue with drugs is the toll it takes on families, and individuals. I've witnessed what drugs do first hand. I have an alcoholic in the family (alcohol is legal, and is far more addictive and destructive than just about anything you can mention), and I know the deep pain and suffering that it brings down on a family. I've had friends kill themselves from drug overdoses, and the havoc that too will bring to a family. In one case, the mother killed herself a year after her daughter did. So while I don't judge what people do, I also see the pain that addictions bring. Worse, I know what happens when someone we love is in denial about their addictions.

It's far too common for those outside the porn industry to use the dehumanizing labels "drug addicts", "crack whores", and "krank freaks" to describe us -- sometimes, ironically enough, by the same people who want to see us as human! But government statistics show that the industries with the most drug abuse are among airline pilots, and medical professionals. Yes, the men flying your planes, and the men you trust to remove your appendix are the ones in this country who most often abuse narcotics, cocaine, and meth. Yes, there are drugs in the porn industry. I'd be lying if I said otherwise. I don't, however, happen to be using. And it appears as though pornstars aren't nearly the users that pilots and doctors are. What does this say about our society that so many feel the need to escape through self-poisoning?

What does it say when, as recent studies show, that three out of each five African American men in this country will see the inside of a prison because of drug related offenses? And what does it say when someone actually is clean, but nobody believes them? I think it says we live in a ----ed up culture.