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Porn Star Karaoke At Sardos Bar

6/7/05

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Upon arrival to Sardos Bar at 9:30pm, I run into Bad Ass Frank and four of his models -- Serena Sin, Charlotte Web, Sharon, Sita.

Karaoke hostess Kristen missed last week because she had a series of root canals. Now she's back but she's still in pain. Wankus is on the road.

I talk outside with Sita, 25.

Sita: "I saw Eon McKai's Kill, Girl, Kill. I emailed him and said 'I want to work with you.'

"It was just hot. It was people I hang out with."

Duke: "Are you a punk rock girl?"

Sita: "I'm not but it's the crowd I hang out with. I can relate to them."

Duke: "What in particular could you relate to?"

Sita: "You could just see that they were really enjoying themselves.

"I watch a lot of porn. Since I was 21. I'm now 25."

Sita has done just one porn scene - with Kurt Lockwood in Kill, Girl, Kill 3.

"I've considered [getting into porn] since I was 21. There were just a lot of things I needed to work out emotionally."

Duke: "What kind of crowd did you hang out with in highschool?"

Sita: "I didn't really hang out with a crowd in highschool [in San Francisco] because I have a lot of niches. Skaters. Metal-headers. Hippies. Rockers."

Duke: "Were you a good student?"

Sita: "Up until ninth grade. I moved out at age 15 and got emancipated."

Duke: "Why?"

Sita: "I just thought I could do a better job."

Duke: "There's a myth about porn stars that they come from troubled homes."

Sita: "I just had to drop out of highschool. When you want to get emancipated, you have to be emancipated. I got my GED at 17."

Duke: "What type of work have you been doing the past ten years?"

Sita: "Mostly secretarial."

Duke: "You look like a conventional girl."

Sita: "You should see me naked."

Sita has many tattoos and piercings that are not apparent when she's dressed normally.

She's worked as a stripper for three years. Along with about 60 other girls, she's one of the co-owners of San Francisco's Lusty Lady, one of the first cooperatively-owned peep shows.

Sita says sex work hasn't affected her view of men. "I like men. I like to put myself in an environment where I can be with them and be flirty."

Duke: "You don't think men are pigs?"

Sita: "Of course. But so am I."

Duke: "When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?"

Sita: "I wanted to be everything. A dancer, singer, model, actress, psychologist, journalist, novelist."

Duke: "Where do you see yourself in ten years?"

Sita's taken aback. "Oh." Long pause. "That's a long way from now. I'm just going to take it day by day."

Duke: "Do you believe that you have an eternal soul?"

Sita laughs: "I hope not."