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Porn Can Empower Women

Ivor Biggun writes on ADT:

Teagan recently revealed that she did porn as revenge on an ex-boyfriend. For some reason this made my ---- rock hard and compelled me to go and ---- off to every scene of hers in my possession. It's so hot to imagine her thinking "Ha, this'll show him!", or "Serves him right for calling me a worthless whore!" as she sucks the ---- that was just in her ---. I sat there with my hand on my ---- thinking "you go, girl!"

I bet that when he saw what she was doing, that dude really regretted losing her. This guy is going to have real trouble getting on with his life after such a devastating blow. I imagine Teagan looking back in 20 or 30 year's time and feeling really proud of herself for getting such spectacular revenge, captured on video permanently for all to see.

It's great to see that porn can be such a positive, empowering thing for women. Does anyone know of any other girls in porn for the same reason? I'd love to have more such material to ---- off to. Has any agency thought of using this as a hook to recruit new talent? Just run an ad: "Ex boyfriend a jerk? Get back at him permanently, do porn. Call xxx". Even better, how about a new series called "Revenge Sluts"?

Picman writes: "Mirage (now Briana Banks) intimated that she was getting back at a boyfriend in Nasty Nymphos 29. Then she proceeded to do a double ----."

Ivor Biggun replies: "Just think, that dude could have been the one rubbing ----s with another guy in Brianna's -------, but because he was such a jerk she let some paid stud do it instead. That's gotta hurt. These guys don't know what they're throwing away until it's too late."

Pete writes:

After her scene in one of the Gangbang Auditions videos, Kacey, with the --- from five guys all over her face, looks into the camera and says to her ex-boyfriend: "Paul, I don't love you anymore."

Paul might well still be in therapy.

Ivor writes: "Indeed, it must have been agonizing to realize he had let such a classy babe slip through his fingers."

Jewel DeNyle writes: "I shot a porn with Annabelle a young 18yr old who did porn because she broke up with her boyfriend she's in Wild on Sex shot in Vegas (PXP) I remember she got in a fight with him before the scene broke up with him a few hours before she shot for me and then took Brandon Iron's ---- she did it to piss him off we were in Vegas at the AVN when this happened I thought it was very funny stuff."

Ivor writes: "I wonder how many movies a girl has to be in before the revenge is officially accomplished?"

Whooya writes: "I know of one girl in the biz aout four years ago who had quite the opposite happen to her...Her family did not know that she was doing porn...When she pissed off her boyfriend he sent copies of one of her videos to her mom, dad and all three brothers, and hand delivered a copy to a guy in the dorm she was living in at UCLA. Needless to say she was quite humiliated."

Ivor writes:

Let me get this straight... Are you saying that these girls don't really understand the consequences of what they're doing when they enter porn as a revenge trip? That's a disturbing thought. If this is the case, then those agents/producers who encourage the girls are taking advantage of their naïveté. That perpetuates the sort of negative, predatory image of porn that the anti-porn zealots want everyone to accept. I refuse to believe it.

share your admiration for the likes of Jenna and Jill Kelly. Through liberal yielding of their orifices, these women have emancipated themselves and achieved success on a par with the most powerful men in porn, striking a resounding blow against the Patriarchy. It's a testament to the opportunities this industry offers that someone like Jill can move from talent, through directing, to becoming a highly successful businesswoman in her own right.

Porn truly is a world of opportunity and reward. I can only imagine the rush of power an 18 year old newcomer feels as the camera focuses on her for the first time and she realizes that she is the center of everyone's attention. To know that she is truly respected and judged on her merits as a person must be a liberating experience. It's such a refreshing contrast to other industries, where women are rated by their physical appearance or their willingness to please men. As that first cock invades her rectum, she must be overwhelmed with excitement and pride.

I understand your views on the downsides, but I feel your attitude is somewhat defeatist. We need to break down these barriers of prejudice and ignorance, and the only way to do that is for more people to be open about it with their friends and family. It's the same battle that Gays and lesbians have been fighting for years - until more people come out into the open, society will not accept it.

Parents should be PROUD that their daughter can do double anal, just as they would be proud if she was a champion gymnast performing similarly remarkable physical feats. They should celebrate the fact that their little girl has grown up to provide so much joy to masturbating perverts around the world. Shout it from the rooftops! "My daughter does ass to mouth and I'm not ashamed or her!"

God bless pornography, and God bless the girls who give it to us. Without them both my balls and my wallet would be a lot heavier.

I've often thought that one route to greater acceptance would be to establish a proper academic framework that leads to an accredited qualification.

It could start with a range of diplomas in different specializations such as oral copulation, anal penetration, etc. A performer could earn these on the job. By passing enough of these modules, they could eventually earn enough academic credits to gain a full honors degree in Erotic Performing Arts.

Not only would this promote societal acceptance by "legitimizing" the profession, it would also encourage higher standards within the industry. In the current political climate it's obviously a bit too controversial for the Ivy League, but maybe a liberal arts college might pick it up?

Janay writes: "Were you being sarcastic here? For the most part porn is a lot about looks. Who holds contracts with the biggest companies?"

Ivor writes on XPT: I love ADT. I love the fact that 36 posts into the thread and in relation to one specific point, someone has the nerve to ask me "Were you being sarcastic here?"

Ivor's signature is this quote from HIV-positive ex-porn star Tricia Devereaux: "I do think I'm a lady. A model for teenage girls."