What Ever Happened To Raven Alexis…

beautiful photo by Holly Randall


I have three reasons for writing this story at this time.

1. I don’t want the subject of this story to invade the important truthful story I will be writing about in the next post.

2. My heart has finally healed enough to deal with the hurt and betrayal I feel every time I think about this.

3. My readers deserve answers to what I think about the Raven Alexis/Cancer debate.

I have talked to so many people over the last six months about Raven Alexis; friends, roommates, relatives, exes, husbands etc… I have also given confidentiality to several conversations I have had. Therefore, I will state that all the things I say are my opinions taken from talks with all the people involved in the situation, but I will not say who said what.

I have also talked to Alexis many, many times. At first with loving friendship. But as time went on and I asked harder questions, her answers became shorter, and non-specific. I asked the questions she did not and would not answer. The last few discussions with Alexis, I got no answers, she was sarcastic. She mentioned her lawyer several times. One thing Raven repeated often to many people was that she took no money for herself. That seemed like a strange thing to say. But when I thought it out and looked it up, if people collect money by saying they are ill and they are not, they can be charged with crimes.

I cared about Alexis very much. I still care about Alexis. Alexis told the world that she had cancer, that she had devastatingly painful brain tumors, that she lost her ability to walk, that she was having seizures daily, that she was going to be receiving only palliative care (Care that relieves pain or symptoms, but doesn’t provide a cure.), that she was was terminal.

Alexis did a toy drive for sick kids. Toys were purchased and delivered to the children. If you bought toys, you did a good thing and made sick kids’ holiday happier. I promoted this toy drive on my site, and am happy that it was for real.

There is a lot of  information relating to Raven’s medical condition, including things I’ve been told her doctors said, that I can’t even mention, because I don’t want to violate her rights to keeping that private.

I also did a lot of talking about Raven and her cancer and how brave she was and how sad the whole thing was on my site. I thought I was being supportive and helpful. I am sure many people supported her because of what they read on my site. For that I apologize.

My mother died of cancer and it runs in my family. Several people in my family have died from cancer. I have suffered through many painful cancer deaths. Because Alexis said she was suffering with cancer, I could relate. I suffered with her and her family. I cried for her many times.

Most of you have read by now that Raven starred in fetish movies as a sick and dying girl. In the movies she pretended to have seizures, she pretended to die. 

Raven said she had seizures due to her cancer. A person who was present during one of her seizures did a test and reported to me that the seizure was fake.  (I have all the details, but have to keep them to myself to keep confidentiality)

All of the information that Raven posted about her cancer, brain tumors, pain and suffering was been removed from her site, her twitter, her blog in January.

Raven was unable to walk in December, In January Raven had moved into her own house. In that same month ads on escort sites and travel dates all around the country were found with Raven’s name and picture on them.

Raven now has pretty much dropped off the radar. Her twitter account had been made private, and now it is gone altogether. Her tumbler account has been deleted. All the links in the stories I did on her now lead to no where. She has disappeared.

In my opinion,  Raven faked having terminal brain cancer.



  1. jeremysteele11

    Porn stars = legal escorting.

    Elite dating service = legal escorting.

    Sugardaddy = legal escorting

    Arranged marriages = legal escorting.

    Politicians = the worst (and only unethical) form of prostitution; compromising oaths and ethics for priviledge and financial gain.

  2. Walter

    Great post Mariah. You made some excellent points. None of what you mention in paragraph 1 will happen until she receives some psychiatric help.

  3. jeremysteele11

    Yes, the MoFo’s retarded crusades are indeed ironic, Mariah, considering that, as sex work researcher and writer Gail Pheterson points out, the term “prostitute” has, historically, gradually taken on a Christian moralist tradition, being synonymous with debasement of oneself or of others for the purpose of ill-gotten gains.

    Furtherfuckingmore, using sex in any way to sell something can rightfully be defined as a form of prostitution. Thus, as R.D. Laing, in part said, we all are pretty much prostitutes. So… thus… ALL HOES SHOULD BE LEFT ALONE…. especially from those criminal elements which pose as elements fighting crime.

    This is simply a matter of consistency. Either condemn ALL whores or leave ALL whores alone!

  4. who me

    MM the best part of your paragraph is the fact that threads get jacked by the same few or should I say 2……it makes it hard to even come to this site.
    There are a few threads that I would comment on, but somehow, some way it all turns to shit, when you keep reading the same shit in every fuckin thread from the same few people……this shit is really getting old.

  5. jeremysteele11

    who are you who me? if you got something to say then say it, if it gets old, read a book, find a hobby, join a group trying to change the world or go back to jerking off to free porn…

  6. who me

    Who am I? I’m nobody, just a guy who likes coming to this site. If you feel attacked or didnt like what I said …….then by all means go ahead and dazzle us all with your constant wit, which will some how turn into a fuckin pity party….as usual.

  7. jeremysteele11

    I ask for for no pity and aim to avoid witlessness.

    But seriously, whatever I bugged you about, my apologies. You want me to go take a hike? I don’t give a shit. Ok.

  8. who me

    Look Mr. Steele, If you go and look at the few threads I’ve posted on you will see that I have complimented you a time or two and even Miss Foster, I think you bring up some good points on some issues and you write well, but dude you have got to learn to let things go…its always the same shit and it takes away from most points that you try to make.
    You dont have to take a hike or give a shit……just give it a rest sometimes.

  9. jet_tits

    @ who: key is to understand he is incapable of controlling himself. He has spent the past few years hijacking virtually every thread on this site. No matter the topic of the thread, it always ends up being about his issues.

  10. Larry Horse

    Jet, go away. You and Royboy add nothing of worth to these threads. You never stop kicking Steele in the sac, evolve or go away.

  11. Rover1020

    Just wanted to add my two cents here. I have been friends with Raven Alexis for 4-5 years. Before she entered porn and after. Just spent three days with her last week. So here are my comments for what its worth:

    1.) First off, alot of people advertise as Raven Alexis on Eros and other escort services. They are all fakes…..just people trying to cash in on her name. When the first eros ad popped up, Raven was not even in NYC that month. The phone numbers and email addresses don’t add up either.

    2.) Raven does know/hang out with a few celebrities and rich guys who support her in Vegas and LA.

    3.) Raven has no intention of getting back to porn or being an escort (by definition).

    4.) Raven has a lovely condo in Vegas with her two kids. I have been to her house and it is very nice for livinng and raisinng kids. Dirt Jr. lives down the street and they remain pretty close and help each other out.

    5.) Now here’s the hard part……Cancer. I don’t really know if Raven had cancer or some other illness and I agree that she may well have used this to disappear from her DP contract. I could go on and give you alot of evidence that she was in fact ill, but I believe most people have already made up your minds. But if that is true, just let her go…. She’s was 24 yrs. old and could not take the pressure. So what? Young people make mistakes.

    6.) for those worried about her charity (I DONATED TOO), let me put your mind at ease. There is no way that Raven could have pulled off a cancer charity fraudulent scam without getting caught. The ACS and IRS would nail her to a cross. So if she stole the money, she would already be busted (maybe she was and is now payinng it back). Since she still lives in her original hometown with her same phone number and email address and web site, I doubt she’s on the runn from the law.

    NL- Really? I talk to Dirt Jr quite often, and he would say they are far from friendly..and I hear she was let go from her DP contract because her movies didn’t sell.

  12. Rover1020

    Dirt moved in very close to her and is active in raising their kids so I think there is obvious communication goinng on between them. I did not mean to imply they are great friends, but they do have a relationship.

    As for the DP contract, Raven was not really the box cover girl. They always featured several girls. So I finnd it hard to believe they could blame Raven for that. In fact, I don’t know why people still buy those high production movies. Everyone now prefers the raw type of porn. Oddly, I hang out with Raven but never watch her movies at all (unless she’s with Bobbi Star :).

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