Mariah Milano Issues a Rare Apology

Let me clear a few things up…

 

Op/Ed by Mariah Milano  of   MariahMilanoxxx.com

Ok I generally don’t give a flying fuck who cares what I think and I try my best to honestly speak my mind about certain things. But recently I learned that some things I wrote on a post here offended someone who is my friend, and who’s opinion of me matters. I had written that the reason I don’t go to conventions in the US is that 99% of the porn stars go there to escort and not do actual web business and that 70% of the girls would disappoint their fans when they saw them under those harsh fluorescent lights in a convention hall. I might have over-stated the % of girls that escort at shows by saying 99%. I take it back. Most of the porn stars are paid by a company to go and stand at a booth and sign autographs and take photos as a representative of that site or production or toy company, so they aren’t there to do any other business. I get it. Most of the porn stars don’t have much to do in the way of running their own sites anyway so why would they be there to do anything other than have a good time and meet fans?
 
I have been in this business longer than most of the current girls out there and have had success and have made a very good living. I don’t want to offend those who don’t deserve it. There are class acts like Nina Mercedes for example who run their own sites, who are great with their fans and take it seriously. I wish more of us were like that. I want more from our industry but I know it ain’t gonna happen. Porn girls are a dime a dozen and they come and they go, doing drugs and escorting and everything else that goes with the sex trade. I have made a choice to be in this business and I am not sorry that I made the choice, but I do know that there is nothing wrong with holding people accountable and wanting more for a business that has seen some hard times in the last few years.
 
Yes, as far as looks go the PornStar girls have gotten a lot more like Hollywood starlets, and that has certainly not hurt anything, but if they are well-known train wrecks and subject themselves to disease and then bring it to a set where I might be working, then it becomes MY business and MY place to call them out for it. Their looks or the fact that they are on TMZ or anything else means fucking nothing to me. I don’t have any control or any way of knowing what they did since their last test which could have been 28 days ago. I was on set in North Hollywood in a house owned by a couple who run an escort site. They sat and showed me all the girls listings who had personally placed those ads or whose agency had placed the ads for them. They told me which girls will fuck with no condom for an extra $300 and it made my skin crawl. Some of them I had worked with before, and one I was very good friends with at the time. They all immediately went on my "No List" and remain there to this day. I no longer will shoot boy girl girl scenes unless I personally know and select the other girl.
 
So to anyone who I offended (not including Darrah Ford lol) I am sorry. If you aren’t attending shows to escort and take your business seriously in no way did I mean to include you in anything I said. I take back the estimate of 99% of girls escorting at trade shows, even though whenever one is in a certain city you can go to the escort sites and see A LOT of the top porn girls listed as available in those cities on those specific dates. If you are an escort I don’t give a shit. That’s your choice and your choice to live with. If you’re ok with it, then God Bless, do your thing and make your money.
 
As far as saying that 70% of the girls would be a disappointment when their fans saw what they really looked like, well that was unnecessary and might have been a tad on the mean side, even though I believe it to be true. I just should keep such comments to myself. I have met a lot of girls in this business who are not at all attractive to me who have been the nicest, and they have done nothing to me for me to say stuff about them, even if it is indirectly.
 
So here it is, a rare apology from me to anyone that I offended by THOSE remarks lol, everything else stands 🙂
 

 

14 thoughts on “Mariah Milano Issues a Rare Apology

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  2. I don’t think i’ve ever seen a porn star who deserved to have her whole world come crashing down on her head more than you Mariah. Geeesh! Don’t you even know how to issue a heartfelt apology? Among other things, the notion that some porn starlet is crying herself to sleep because they are on your ridiculous “no list” is beyond laughable. Seriously lady. You have an ego the size of texas. You are attractive, but the personality that comes through in your writings is just plain ugly. On another note, you would think It would be clear to you by now that not a single one of these girls gives a damn what you or anyone else thinks about their choice to escort. Now, as far the safety concerns about possible exposure on a set as a result of someone screwing some client unprotected, the only thing i can say about that is WOW. However, this makes absolutely no sense to me. Why in the world would anyone, especially an aspiring porn star whose very livelihood depends on maintaining a clean bill of health, put their career, and life for that matter, in jeopardy? Does that make sense to anyone here? Now i do know there are some stars who will see someone with an aim test not older than 3 days. That is totally different than screwing some stranger raw. Unless of course one believes that somehow these guys are not as “safe” as a porn stud whose test usually is older than 3 days. See, i actually perform pcr as well as herpes and other std testing. I know all the risk involved backwards and forwards and simply don’t believe anyone in their right mind would engage in such reckless behavior. Sorry, ain’t buying it. This is just another pathetic rant from someone who takes issue with porn stars who escort. You simply don’t want to say it outright because you would offend a whole lot of women, considering how damn near all the girls are escorting these days. Nice try though. And here’s some food for thought. There are a helluva lot of stars escorting “under the radar” unbeknownst to anyone except a very, very select few. Hell, at the rate things are going you’re not going to have ANY women to work with before long. Seriously.

  3. Simmons do you think most young porn stars are “aspiring” to do anything more than party and be able to shop all the time? Do you think they have career goals in mind?
    It’s a FACT that hookers as well as porn stars who escort take more money to fuck with no condom. It’s a sad fact, but a fact no less. Why would the owners of an escort agency lie? You don’t have to believe it, I could care less. I didn’t say ALL of them, but far more than you would think for far less.

    I get emails DAILY from porn girls to work with me. To shoot content with me or to do scenes with them. Some people respect someone who speaks out about things that affect them directly.

    You need to read some of my previous posts, like the one I wrote about escorting where I did say it out loud. If you consider under the radar having ads on multiple escort sites and having the erotic review have hundreds of guys giving reviews then you might want to look up what “under the radar” means.

    I said before and I say again, I don’t care what they do, I just am concerned over health issues. Why would guys in the porn business with production companies go to Brazil and fuck trannies without tests? It happens all the time. DO some research before you run your mouth.

  4. Yeah, yeah, i am well aware of the fact that some people in the industry venture outside the U.S. to shoot porn (cheaper), which no doubt increases the risk of contracting something. Especially when you consider that the testing standards abroad probably fall short of industry requirements (see Darren James). I’ve done a whole boatload of research on this because it’s my field.

    As far as being under the radar, here’s what i meant: Believe me when i say i was shocked (and that says a lot) regarding the number of porn stars who ARE availabe as escorts, yet are totally absent from any escort site or TER for that matter. Only those truly in the know (yours truly) are privy to such info. Some simply escort abroad exclusively. Others are availabe only to those who don’t mind paying a heavy premium to join certain websites simply to view the portfolio of those that they are available.

    I admit there may be people out here crazy enough to have unprotected sex with strangers. I simply refuse to believe that there are any established, reputable porn stars who would do so without necessary testing on the part of both parties involved. Sorry. You never know what agenda someone has in spreading certain types of information. Some people just like to run their damn mouths.

    As far as the multitude of emails you get daily requesting your participation in various shoots: what the hell does that have to do with anything? I guess that’s your way of saying ” I’m so incredibly hot that everyone is dying to work with me!” Damn girl, get over yourself. You take the “Star” in porn star entirely too seriously. Again, an ego the size of Texas.

  5. Well for the second time in this post I apologize. I misread what you wrote as saying no one wants to work with me. My bad.

    I hope you don’t really think that the escorting porn stars see porn as their livelihood. They make more in a week escorting than they do shooting, especially at the rates being paid these days. Escorting is their livelihood if they do it because it pays a LOT more.

    I happen to have been very close friends or so I thought with a porn girl who escorts and she flat out told me that she has taken the condom off for a client if he has a test for an extra $500. Now I’m no photo shop wizard but I know that it isn’t hard to touch up a scanned copy of an AIM test and change names or dates or anything else if you want to. Isn’t that what Marc Wallace did before he was found out?
    The girl I speak of above assured me it is so safe that she does background checks and verifies them and their address before she meets with them. Turns out that she looks up the name they give her on whitepages.com lol yeah, really thorough! Why would a married guy meeting a hooker in a hotel room lie about his name???
    I personally KNOW most of the porn stars in the business whether it’s working with them or meeting them on set or whatever. I was on a set one day with a girl who has a VERY big name and the scene had to be stopped because her pussy smelled so bad. She said without shame that she did a bachelor party the night before and had 3 guys cum inside of her. Now you tell me that isn’t fucking CRAZY for her to be working the next morning??? I SAW it with my eyes, I was THERE! The male talent almost got sick and said that it smelled like a dead body. Now I am not std specialist like you are, but I know that isn’t healthy for anyone. The guy fucking her that day or the next or the next after that.

    I have gotten lured into a discussion over escorting when I don’t care who does it and who doesn’t, I just don’t do it and think it’s unhealthy for the industry. That’s MY opinion, and I shared it. I don’t escort and never have and I’m sure there are many others who don’t either. Good for them and for those who do. It just scares me is all.

    and yes my ego is BIGGER than Texas 🙂

  6. Classy response. Didn’t mean to be so terse with my earlier post. As far as the story about the girl with the smelly cooter, WOW!! just WOW!! She must not value her life. And some guys never cease to amaze me. This saddens me. Now i have a better understanding of what you are talking about when you voice your health concerns. It’s not the first time i heard about a lack of hygeine on the part of someone on a porn set, but i think that’s about the nastiest thing i have ever heard. yeah, the whole Marc Wallice thing was really messed up! He’s not the only one. Recently Evil Angel dropped (briefly) a certain male talent because he got careless with his testing. This idiot (Brian pumper) worked with female talent whose testing panel result had come back negative for GC/Chlam but was still pending for Hiv by Pcr. Her Hiv came back negative for Hiv, but damn, talk about reckless. Personally i have never seen a porn star escort, but haven’t ruled taking the plunge in the future. You better believe that if i do all bases will be covered. I have shot some amateur porn i demanded pcr results not older than 5 days from everyone involved. My results were only 3 days old. i stopped shooting because the people involved got kind of lax with testing.

    I do wish you the best with all your endeavors, and i think it is best that you don’t take the escort plunge because it’s something you obviously aren’t comfortable with, which means you would no doubt fall short of any clients expectations. Everyone needs to stick to what they’re comfortable with. I will say this: Please don’t feel insulted when a gent asks you about escorting. It simply is a natural inclination for most porn star fans to want to spend time with their all time favs. Despite the fact that there are a plethora of drop dead gorgeous escorts available here and abroad, some guys just want their porn fantasy realized and will pay a hefty premium to do so. Peace.

  7. RickMadrid says:

    damm!!! How much will a guy pay for a porn fantasy to be realized? That is out rageous!! Hey Mariah? Did the Male talent “Barf” all over the studio along with the PA’s and the director and camera men? Some people have no shame!!

  8. DucisPegues says:

    Hello Mariah,
    While I respect the choices you made, there are certain things about your statements I have to take you to task on…..

    1-regarding the disease risk…You mentioned that pornstars who escort are offering bareback for extra $$$. The ONLY circumstance I see that happening is if the guy (like certian hobbyists) get AIM tested and receive the full pornstar panel, then that equalizes the risk as you shooting with known male talent. As someone who has partaken of Pornstar Escorts, I have NEVER been offered bareback services, and would never partake of that because other diseases like genital warts and herpes are NOT tested for in the industry and ppl are allowed to work WITH those diseases.

    2-By the way, the male talent you shoot with are not so clean themselves. The Majority of them have HERPES. I have seen your scenes Mariah. You have shot with male talent who are KNOWN herpes carriers. One male talent even commented to me that if herpes testing were mandatory, there would be no male talent to shoot.

    3-Do you put male talent on your NO list if they escort?? because many of those GUYS escort themselves. Just check Pamela Peaks site. Also, many of the male talent go both ways. Are you screening the male talent for their extracurricular activities?

    4-Genital Warts is another thing. Male Talent with known histories of HPV genital warts are allowed to work. Do you screen for that Mariah??

    5-Furthermore, as far as the looks of the ladies at a convention, you are right, YES, fans will be disappointed with certain pornstars when viewed up close. I went to one convention last month where that did ring true. Many girls were a disappointment up close. However, please do not paint yourself as having flawless looks. With the High-Def porn being shot one can celarly see your bad skin/acne covered in makeup. Here’s my challenge to you. Come to a porn convention or do a club appearance with NO makeup on and lets see your skin au-naturale. Maybe then you wouldnt be talking smack about the not-so-hot looks of others.

    And i’m out…PEACE!!

    -Ducis Pegues

  9. I think it’s great that Mariah Milano hasn’t gone the prostitute route. Whether it’s morally the same or not it’s great to see someone have a point of view and stick to it. Kathy Willets actually went the other route totally. Teri Weigel is pretty much turning to the prostitute route now, too. It’s up to the Pornstar what they want to do. Some much different from when pornstars had sex for fun first and with that came pretty good money days. Now it’s strictly prostitution with cash, in the world of the more wealthy sector! Pretty soon lower and middle class folks won’t ever get to see new porn because it will be totally a game of no video prostitution.

  10. RickMadrid says:

    and as the industry turns………

  11. Ducis
    actually I have about 20 guys on my “No” list. I have done my homework on many of them and if you notice I usually work with the same handful of guys.

    When I said that guys would be dissapointed at conventions I didn’t mean just with the girls looks. I meant the entire package. A lot of girls are fucked up, are arrogant and act as if they are Julia Roberts and at one show I saw a girl who had sores and bruises all over her legs.

    I trust someone who is tested every 28 days much more than random guy who’s test is weeks old. Plus, if he’s on business or whatever, how do I know who he shot with last night? I know for a FACT that girls do bareback for extra money because I have had more than 1 tell me themselves.

    Yes I have discussed my skin issues before and I own up to it. I inherited it but after 12 years in this business I still get a high rate and am booked solid by the major companies when I say I’m available. I bet I spend more annually on my skin than most people do on their car payments but it’s a futile battle since there is little I can do about it most of the time.

    I just spoke my opinion which I am entitled to. period

    1. This one time I shit In a coffee mug and poured it into a gaping escort Anus and she shit it back out into another escorts mouth. They went and shot a BGG scene the next day without showering.

  12. RickMadrid says:

    Hey Mariah…I am on your “no ” List? I have never and will not do any Gay, Bi, Video productions.???

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